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Are you carrying emotions that aren't even yours?
The tightness before your colleague’s meeting. The heaviness after talking to a friend who’s constantly overthinking. The tension in your body when things feel unsettled at home. Nothing happened to you but suddenly, you feel drained, anxious or overwhelmed. That’s because you absorbed something that wasn’t yours to hold.
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The Invisible Achievements That Matter More Than You Think
Some of the most meaningful progress in our lives happens quietly - without witnesses, without validation, without a single “well done.” These are the invisible achievements. And they matter more than we realise.
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When “You Have So Much Potential” Feels Like Pressure, Not Praise
“You have so much potential.” It sounds like a compliment. Encouraging. Hopeful. Almost generous. And yet, for many people, it doesn’t land that way at all.
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The Healing Paradox: Why Trying Harder to Fix Yourself Can Slow Healing Down
There’s a paradox in healing that most of us don’t realise until we’re deep in it: the harder you try to “fix yourself,” the longer it can take to actually heal.
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The Complex Reality of Missing Someone: Love vs Belonging
Missing someone can feel incredibly heavy. It settles into your chest, lingers in quiet moments and shows up when you least expect it.
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A Gentle Goodbye to 2025
The kind of reflection where you sit with both the things you’re proud of and the things you’re still learning how to hold.
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The Hidden Cost of Hyper-Independence: Why Doing Everything Alone Isn’t Strength
Here’s the hard truth many don’t talk about: Hyper-independence isn’t strength. It’s a trauma response.
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Why We Keep Making the Same Mistakes (and How to Finally Break the Pattern)
Ever found yourself asking, “Why do I keep doing this? ”Choosing the wrong partner again. Taking on too much at work (again). Saying yes when you know you want to say no.
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When Gratitude Becomes Toxic: The Hidden Weight Behind “Just Be Grateful”
when gratitude is used to dismiss pain rather than process it, it turns into something else - what I call toxic gratitude.
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Approval Isn’t Freedom - Alignment Is
Trying to be liked by everyone is exhausting. So is over-explaining, over-apologising and second-guessing every decision.
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You Don’t Need to Have It All Figured Out to Take the Next Step
Feeling stuck because you don’t have all the answers yet? You’re not alone. So many of us wait - for the plan, the perfect timing, the guarantee that things will work out before we allow ourselves to move.
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The Power of “Wasting Time”: Why Doing Nothing Might Be the Most Productive Thing You Do
We measure our worth by how full our calendars look, how quickly we reply to emails or how much we accomplish before lunch. Productivity has become a badge of honour and stillness, a sign of guilt.
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The Real Reason People Judge You When You Start to Grow
Have you ever noticed that the loudest judgments often come from people who aren’t walking your path?
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Why We Should Stop Labelling Ourselves by Our Emotions
Feel sad for a few days? We label ourselves “depressed.” Feel anxious in one situation? We start calling ourselves “an anxious person.”
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“Life Partner.”
The term itself feels so permanent, doesn’t it? Like one person is supposed to walk in and fill every gap for a lifetime. No wonder so many people carry the quiet, lingering fear: “What if I never find mine?"
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Burnt Toast Theory
It’s the idea that when something small goes “wrong” - like burning your toast - it might actually be life protecting you from something bigger.
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Manifestation Isn’t Magic
Here are 3 steps I use (and teach) to manifest something as real and rooted as a dream home
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Addiction Isn't Always About The Substance
We often think addiction means alcohol, drugs, or smoking. But what about scrolling endlessly, working non-stop, or staying in relationships that leave us emotionally drained?
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The Transformative Power of Gratitude in Everyday Life
Amidst the hustle of life, I stumbled upon a simple yet profound practice that reshaped my days - the practice of gratitude. It wasn't just about listing things; it was about a fundamental shift in perspective.
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The Power of Mindful Decision Making in a Fast-Paced World
Tips for Infusing Mindfulness into Decisions.
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